Ok.... so we all know that Men and Women are worlds apart when it comes to thinking ... so what's new in that?? Everyone knows it ..... m sure a whole lot of us have read the very famous non-fiction "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" by John Gray... quite an interesting book I must say ... those of you who haven't put your hands on it .. should definitely read it ... ahem... coming back to the point .... Since no one has ever been ignorant from this hard core reality ... why am I sitting here writing a blog instead?? ....I should be a good kid and instead of blogging should concentrate my energy in studying, but I ain't doing that... reason ..... aaammm well because I wanted to share this cute little incident that happened with me and I couldn't resist the temptation to pen it down ...... So here goes...
It was one of those gloomy/depressing day today where I proved to be a total waste when it came to working productively, So I sucked at work .... came home early to sulk even more in my new apartment only to make situations worst .... what the heck was I thinking??? I was thinking that I'll get some work done from home .. big mistake .... but here I was slouching on my sofa and instead of working I was sobbing n what not ... and so I called the only person I know who's easily reachable and is the one of the cutest souls living in this bad bad world ... so when I call him ... he's at work and a little busy.... hence I decided to let it be... and held myself back from blabbering out about my bad mood and allowed him to get back to his work ... but eventually I couldn't resist not telling him and blabbered out all my emotions on messenger and asked him if he could drop by if only for a few mintues ..... well he agrees but out of concern asked me the reason for my mood swing .... now here comes the cute little funny part and the part where it again proves that Men are soooooooooooo different from Women in almost all the aspects which involves a lot of thinking ..... as we are talking or rather chatting ... I try to explain that the reason why I'm on a emotional turmoil is not something which has a viable reason ...in my case I just want to cry(maybe 'coz I am overwhelmed by the new changes and was possibly exhausted and frustrated). It is common for a woman to behave unusual of herself... and mostly around that time what they need is someone to just cuddle( a hug works the best) them a little and to let them cry for a while and may be tell them a few consoling words like "it'll be alright or it'll all be ok .. dont worry blah blah" ... so basically all we are talking about is babying a women when she's on a emotional roller coaster ride.... Now there are times when We(I mean women) would just want to cry. Period. Or most of the times its just that we've completely lost our patience and or are simply overwhelmed with too much happening in our surrounding... but that does not mean that we (Women) don't have solution to our problems .... on the other hand ... Men (they) think that if a woman is crying than there has to be a reason ... and or a problem for which she might (most likely) not have an answer for .... See where I am going with this theory ..... different perspective of thinking and handling things ................................... anywhoooo coming back to my story .... Here I was talking(chatting) to him and explaining that today I just want to cry and let it all out ... and as a favor if he could just hug me and let me cry ..... and on the other hand he like a stubborn cute little kid was constantly trying to find out what went so wrong with me ... and wanted to know the problem / reasons for which I was so upset that I was crying like a baby .... So for good 20 mins or so we had this conversation of him asking me what was wrong and all I kept saying was that nothing was wrong and I might be overwhelmed.... and despite me trying in every possible way to convince him that there is actually no big reason that I'm upset he still found it hard to believe that one can cry for no reason at all and eventually gave up agreed that Women sometimes(most of the time) are really difficult to understand... and in the entire process of this discussion I actually forgot that I was upset and realized that was busy focusing all my energy in making him understand the difference in thinking process... both the sexes are actually in a very different platonic level when it comes to applying thoughts..... how cutely funny is that ... lollllzz ...
Anywhooo .... I asked him to drop by for a few minutes and while in conversation I realize that he actually has an evening class to attend and there are chances that he might not be able to come at all .... me was disappointed a little but I truly understood that the poor thing was working whole day and had an evening class to attend .... So I tell him not to worry about me and to continue with his schedule ... (I'm a good girl you see ... :-D) but to my utmost surprise he calls me and was on his way to where I live .... and we went out for nice coffee (I got a little pep talk as well .. lollz), on my way back home it made me realize that the 30 minutes I was with him turned out to be the happiest part of my oh so ever gloomiest day ....... for which I'm really thankful to him ...
It was one of those gloomy/depressing day today where I proved to be a total waste when it came to working productively, So I sucked at work .... came home early to sulk even more in my new apartment only to make situations worst .... what the heck was I thinking??? I was thinking that I'll get some work done from home .. big mistake .... but here I was slouching on my sofa and instead of working I was sobbing n what not ... and so I called the only person I know who's easily reachable and is the one of the cutest souls living in this bad bad world ... so when I call him ... he's at work and a little busy.... hence I decided to let it be... and held myself back from blabbering out about my bad mood and allowed him to get back to his work ... but eventually I couldn't resist not telling him and blabbered out all my emotions on messenger and asked him if he could drop by if only for a few mintues ..... well he agrees but out of concern asked me the reason for my mood swing .... now here comes the cute little funny part and the part where it again proves that Men are soooooooooooo different from Women in almost all the aspects which involves a lot of thinking ..... as we are talking or rather chatting ... I try to explain that the reason why I'm on a emotional turmoil is not something which has a viable reason ...in my case I just want to cry(maybe 'coz I am overwhelmed by the new changes and was possibly exhausted and frustrated). It is common for a woman to behave unusual of herself... and mostly around that time what they need is someone to just cuddle( a hug works the best) them a little and to let them cry for a while and may be tell them a few consoling words like "it'll be alright or it'll all be ok .. dont worry blah blah" ... so basically all we are talking about is babying a women when she's on a emotional roller coaster ride.... Now there are times when We(I mean women) would just want to cry. Period. Or most of the times its just that we've completely lost our patience and or are simply overwhelmed with too much happening in our surrounding... but that does not mean that we (Women) don't have solution to our problems .... on the other hand ... Men (they) think that if a woman is crying than there has to be a reason ... and or a problem for which she might (most likely) not have an answer for .... See where I am going with this theory ..... different perspective of thinking and handling things ................................... anywhoooo coming back to my story .... Here I was talking(chatting) to him and explaining that today I just want to cry and let it all out ... and as a favor if he could just hug me and let me cry ..... and on the other hand he like a stubborn cute little kid was constantly trying to find out what went so wrong with me ... and wanted to know the problem / reasons for which I was so upset that I was crying like a baby .... So for good 20 mins or so we had this conversation of him asking me what was wrong and all I kept saying was that nothing was wrong and I might be overwhelmed.... and despite me trying in every possible way to convince him that there is actually no big reason that I'm upset he still found it hard to believe that one can cry for no reason at all and eventually gave up agreed that Women sometimes(most of the time) are really difficult to understand... and in the entire process of this discussion I actually forgot that I was upset and realized that was busy focusing all my energy in making him understand the difference in thinking process... both the sexes are actually in a very different platonic level when it comes to applying thoughts..... how cutely funny is that ... lollllzz ...
Anywhooo .... I asked him to drop by for a few minutes and while in conversation I realize that he actually has an evening class to attend and there are chances that he might not be able to come at all .... me was disappointed a little but I truly understood that the poor thing was working whole day and had an evening class to attend .... So I tell him not to worry about me and to continue with his schedule ... (I'm a good girl you see ... :-D) but to my utmost surprise he calls me and was on his way to where I live .... and we went out for nice coffee (I got a little pep talk as well .. lollz), on my way back home it made me realize that the 30 minutes I was with him turned out to be the happiest part of my oh so ever gloomiest day ....... for which I'm really thankful to him ...
2 comments:
It is good to know that there are thoughtful people in the world like that guy. I wish I could read more stories about men who do nice things like this for ladies, and ladies who appreciate it enough to write about it. Good job!
so so true...i completely agree with u...!!
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