AAhhmmmmm....welll for the past few weeks lets just say that I wasn't very happy with everything happening around me.. and my surrounding ... I had moved out from the place I called my home for the last 3 years and me was certainly not liking it.... not that I'm not adaptable to the changes but I think 3 years is a long time anyway ...... So here I am in a new place... new faces .... new people.... new apartment ... new environment and a total 180 degree change in the weather.... I guess I was used to living in a sunny weather and now.... heee hee ... well its rarely that sunny ... In everything that's happening new around me .... I stood back and was trying to get a grasp of the new surrounding and being a silent observer ... I like to observe very closely, watching every minute detail... so in this new place I stand back and like a true and a devoted spectator I just observe, watch people interact..... the way they get dress.. (since the usual temperature here is sub-zero)... the busy busy life .... I stand here and look at the very fast pacing lifestyle around me... everything is sooooo fast and swift ... so....energetic .. and in between the entire crowd of unknown faces I am still smiling ... if you may ask .. that's because in this crowd there's a reason for me to smile .. there's this one known face, an almost angelic face which has this gesture of reassurance ... an aura which can so very easily make anyone comfortable around itself ... and in that crowd he's standing there... watching me and is definitely smiling back at me ... it is such a great relief to know that you are not alone .. someone you trust and can rely on is just "half a call away" .... and I know I can always fall back to him and he'll try his level best to help me through.... Something about him just makes me smile .... don't know if its him or the small little things he does to make you feel comfortable and special or the gestures of warmth that just sways your heart away .... Small things like this really makes me feel blessed a lot of times ... blessed to have few people around me who really make a difference in what I really am today ..... Me!!
Sunday, March 09, 2008
Tuesday, March 04, 2008
The Truth about Men and Women
Ok.... so we all know that Men and Women are worlds apart when it comes to thinking ... so what's new in that?? Everyone knows it ..... m sure a whole lot of us have read the very famous non-fiction "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" by John Gray... quite an interesting book I must say ... those of you who haven't put your hands on it .. should definitely read it ... ahem... coming back to the point .... Since no one has ever been ignorant from this hard core reality ... why am I sitting here writing a blog instead?? ....I should be a good kid and instead of blogging should concentrate my energy in studying, but I ain't doing that... reason ..... aaammm well because I wanted to share this cute little incident that happened with me and I couldn't resist the temptation to pen it down ...... So here goes...
It was one of those gloomy/depressing day today where I proved to be a total waste when it came to working productively, So I sucked at work .... came home early to sulk even more in my new apartment only to make situations worst .... what the heck was I thinking??? I was thinking that I'll get some work done from home .. big mistake .... but here I was slouching on my sofa and instead of working I was sobbing n what not ... and so I called the only person I know who's easily reachable and is the one of the cutest souls living in this bad bad world ... so when I call him ... he's at work and a little busy.... hence I decided to let it be... and held myself back from blabbering out about my bad mood and allowed him to get back to his work ... but eventually I couldn't resist not telling him and blabbered out all my emotions on messenger and asked him if he could drop by if only for a few mintues ..... well he agrees but out of concern asked me the reason for my mood swing .... now here comes the cute little funny part and the part where it again proves that Men are soooooooooooo different from Women in almost all the aspects which involves a lot of thinking ..... as we are talking or rather chatting ... I try to explain that the reason why I'm on a emotional turmoil is not something which has a viable reason ...in my case I just want to cry(maybe 'coz I am overwhelmed by the new changes and was possibly exhausted and frustrated). It is common for a woman to behave unusual of herself... and mostly around that time what they need is someone to just cuddle( a hug works the best) them a little and to let them cry for a while and may be tell them a few consoling words like "it'll be alright or it'll all be ok .. dont worry blah blah" ... so basically all we are talking about is babying a women when she's on a emotional roller coaster ride.... Now there are times when We(I mean women) would just want to cry. Period. Or most of the times its just that we've completely lost our patience and or are simply overwhelmed with too much happening in our surrounding... but that does not mean that we (Women) don't have solution to our problems .... on the other hand ... Men (they) think that if a woman is crying than there has to be a reason ... and or a problem for which she might (most likely) not have an answer for .... See where I am going with this theory ..... different perspective of thinking and handling things ................................... anywhoooo coming back to my story .... Here I was talking(chatting) to him and explaining that today I just want to cry and let it all out ... and as a favor if he could just hug me and let me cry ..... and on the other hand he like a stubborn cute little kid was constantly trying to find out what went so wrong with me ... and wanted to know the problem / reasons for which I was so upset that I was crying like a baby .... So for good 20 mins or so we had this conversation of him asking me what was wrong and all I kept saying was that nothing was wrong and I might be overwhelmed.... and despite me trying in every possible way to convince him that there is actually no big reason that I'm upset he still found it hard to believe that one can cry for no reason at all and eventually gave up agreed that Women sometimes(most of the time) are really difficult to understand... and in the entire process of this discussion I actually forgot that I was upset and realized that was busy focusing all my energy in making him understand the difference in thinking process... both the sexes are actually in a very different platonic level when it comes to applying thoughts..... how cutely funny is that ... lollllzz ...
Anywhooo .... I asked him to drop by for a few minutes and while in conversation I realize that he actually has an evening class to attend and there are chances that he might not be able to come at all .... me was disappointed a little but I truly understood that the poor thing was working whole day and had an evening class to attend .... So I tell him not to worry about me and to continue with his schedule ... (I'm a good girl you see ... :-D) but to my utmost surprise he calls me and was on his way to where I live .... and we went out for nice coffee (I got a little pep talk as well .. lollz), on my way back home it made me realize that the 30 minutes I was with him turned out to be the happiest part of my oh so ever gloomiest day ....... for which I'm really thankful to him ...
It was one of those gloomy/depressing day today where I proved to be a total waste when it came to working productively, So I sucked at work .... came home early to sulk even more in my new apartment only to make situations worst .... what the heck was I thinking??? I was thinking that I'll get some work done from home .. big mistake .... but here I was slouching on my sofa and instead of working I was sobbing n what not ... and so I called the only person I know who's easily reachable and is the one of the cutest souls living in this bad bad world ... so when I call him ... he's at work and a little busy.... hence I decided to let it be... and held myself back from blabbering out about my bad mood and allowed him to get back to his work ... but eventually I couldn't resist not telling him and blabbered out all my emotions on messenger and asked him if he could drop by if only for a few mintues ..... well he agrees but out of concern asked me the reason for my mood swing .... now here comes the cute little funny part and the part where it again proves that Men are soooooooooooo different from Women in almost all the aspects which involves a lot of thinking ..... as we are talking or rather chatting ... I try to explain that the reason why I'm on a emotional turmoil is not something which has a viable reason ...in my case I just want to cry(maybe 'coz I am overwhelmed by the new changes and was possibly exhausted and frustrated). It is common for a woman to behave unusual of herself... and mostly around that time what they need is someone to just cuddle( a hug works the best) them a little and to let them cry for a while and may be tell them a few consoling words like "it'll be alright or it'll all be ok .. dont worry blah blah" ... so basically all we are talking about is babying a women when she's on a emotional roller coaster ride.... Now there are times when We(I mean women) would just want to cry. Period. Or most of the times its just that we've completely lost our patience and or are simply overwhelmed with too much happening in our surrounding... but that does not mean that we (Women) don't have solution to our problems .... on the other hand ... Men (they) think that if a woman is crying than there has to be a reason ... and or a problem for which she might (most likely) not have an answer for .... See where I am going with this theory ..... different perspective of thinking and handling things ................................... anywhoooo coming back to my story .... Here I was talking(chatting) to him and explaining that today I just want to cry and let it all out ... and as a favor if he could just hug me and let me cry ..... and on the other hand he like a stubborn cute little kid was constantly trying to find out what went so wrong with me ... and wanted to know the problem / reasons for which I was so upset that I was crying like a baby .... So for good 20 mins or so we had this conversation of him asking me what was wrong and all I kept saying was that nothing was wrong and I might be overwhelmed.... and despite me trying in every possible way to convince him that there is actually no big reason that I'm upset he still found it hard to believe that one can cry for no reason at all and eventually gave up agreed that Women sometimes(most of the time) are really difficult to understand... and in the entire process of this discussion I actually forgot that I was upset and realized that was busy focusing all my energy in making him understand the difference in thinking process... both the sexes are actually in a very different platonic level when it comes to applying thoughts..... how cutely funny is that ... lollllzz ...
Anywhooo .... I asked him to drop by for a few minutes and while in conversation I realize that he actually has an evening class to attend and there are chances that he might not be able to come at all .... me was disappointed a little but I truly understood that the poor thing was working whole day and had an evening class to attend .... So I tell him not to worry about me and to continue with his schedule ... (I'm a good girl you see ... :-D) but to my utmost surprise he calls me and was on his way to where I live .... and we went out for nice coffee (I got a little pep talk as well .. lollz), on my way back home it made me realize that the 30 minutes I was with him turned out to be the happiest part of my oh so ever gloomiest day ....... for which I'm really thankful to him ...
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